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Do any other Mom's get depressed when their college age kids leave after a visit?

I am the Mom of my only child a son who is 20. He has been going to college 2 hours away but he just left for his summer internship after being home a few days.

I am really sad that he left and feel embarrassed because I can't quit crying. Is this normal, has anyone else experienced this or do I need more professional help?

I would sincerely appreciate some advice. Thank you in advance for your help.

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Moxime

Asked by Moxime at 7:29 PM on May. 10, 2012 in Adult Children (18+)

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  • I think it's normal. I cried the most after I dropped my youngest off at college but I've been known to be a bit weepy after everyone leaves after the holidays.
    BrawnwynII

    Answer by BrawnwynII at 7:31 PM on May. 10, 2012

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  • Totally normal. Don't worry unless you don't recover after a few days. I hope you keep in touch with emails, skype, calls, etc. And don't worry........he still needs you a lot!!
    whitepeppers

    Answer by whitepeppers at 7:47 PM on May. 11, 2012

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  • Totally normal, if it helps you cope by all means cry!
    older

    Answer by older at 8:43 AM on May. 12, 2012

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  • that is natural
    smiley745

    Answer by smiley745 at 7:33 AM on May. 27, 2012

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  • My DD is in college but still living at home. I'm not sure how I will react when she moves out......

    Good Luck.
    Cindy18

    Answer by Cindy18 at 11:54 AM on May. 29, 2012

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  • that is natural
    GlitteribonMom

    Answer by GlitteribonMom at 9:56 PM on Aug. 6, 2012

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