i have remained friends with my first love and while i'm not in love with him, we have a bond neither of us can terminate. we both have tried. i am married now, he is in the middle of a divorce. i'm happy in my marriage and my husband does know of my feelings towards my ex and he understands my feelings. i just can't seem to shake the feeling that i'm not giving my husband all of me and i don't know how to take back the piece of my heart that i gave away before. it doesn't matter if my ex and i are speaking or not, the bond is still there and we eventually take up our friendship again. i want to be friends, he is a wonderful person, but i want to take back the piece of me that i gave him long ago. has anyone successfully done that? or is it that once love is given it can't be taken back?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:45 PM on Jan. 27, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 11:48 PM on Jan. 27, 2009
Answer by VaDivaMom at 1:15 AM on Jan. 28, 2009
You can't. You will always have a special bond with your first love. Even if he's thousands of miles away. It's always going to be there. It's just part of the female psyche. It's what you do with that knowledge is what matters. You can't let it consume you and affect your relationship with your husband.
Answer by Chrissy629 at 6:52 AM on Jan. 28, 2009
Answer by MrsRKP7 at 11:15 AM on Jan. 28, 2009