Sometimes in marriage we can get "comfortable" and that can be a bad thing. Maybe he's not interested because he thinks you aren't interested. You can't sit around and wait for him to change, you need to take the initiative and make a change in yourself. Start off by showing him more affection, don't wait for him to kiss you, you go kiss him. When you are sitting on the couch watching TV or whatever try sitting a little closer than normal and hold his hand. Tell him that you appreciate him and make him feel like a man. I'm telling you, it works wonders with my husband! Also, you might want to read Dr. Laura's book, The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands.
at 5:55 PM on Jun. 19, 2008