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My boyfriend of 9 months is great. I fell for him instantly. We had a couple of problems with him lying to me, and I caught him about 3 times textin another girl. One happens to be his EX!
When we met he told me his ex of 9 years cheated on him, got pregnant, took all his stuff and tried to get him in jail. He told me he didn't talk to her at all. Well I figured, of course you wouldn't talk to her.so er never ever talked about her. Until one day, I saw her calling his phone. He lied about who it was. Then confessed.
This happened about 3 months ago. Ever since then, i don't think he's over her. I don't know of they still talk . He says they don't. He doesn't love her, and he's over her. Then about two weeks ago, I asked to see his camera. It's a old one, but he had tons of naked pictures of his ex in it. I asked why hasn't he deleted them, he says cause he never looks at that camera. Yet, he had another ex on there. He deleted them last night in front of me.
He claims he would like to move in with me, marry me, have a child with me. But I can't get over the thought that if his ex wanted him back. She can have him. For some reason I think it's HER that's stopping them from being together...
My question is...9 years. Can he really be over her? It's been two years since they broken up.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:16 PM on May. 13, 2012 in Relationships
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