My husband is not usually home when the kids and I are. He stays at home with our 2yo while I work for 4 hours each day but he focuses on giving her attention and getting ready for work so I do all of the cleaning and cooking, kids, dog, errands, etc.
He told me last night that he does not feel like a man but one of the kids and would like me to work on changing that. I posted the question in one of my groups and got the following ideas on how I can do it.
listen to what he has to say and not jump to conclusions
ask his opinion even if I do not care
do things his way once in a while
compliment him on things even if I do not like how he did them
do you ladies have any other ideas? Thank you.
Oh and he does complement me on everything I do, and gives credit where credit is due.
Answer by NannyB. at 3:56 PM on Jan. 28, 2009
Answer by Wimsey at 3:19 PM on Jan. 28, 2009
Answer by crazybeautifulh at 3:22 PM on Jan. 28, 2009
Answer by mommie2twogirls at 1:31 AM on Jan. 29, 2009