I'm in need of some good words....
Hubby and I have been seperated for a year (after 15 yrs of marriage). He's in a relationship and lives with the person. I gave him the divorce papers 8 mths ago and he said what's the hurry and that he wanted me to have his benefits. I finally thought things out and have decided to get a lawyer and file for divorce. Here's when you ladies come in... I'm sure once he is served with the papers he's going to call and ask/say the following:
What's the hurry?
What if we want to get back?
I want you to have my benefits.
I have NO benefits what so ever with him. I tried to save our marriage but did not want to so life goes on for me now. I have no hurry but I don't want any strings attached. How would you answer in little words but that he realizes reality?
Wise words please....
Answer by Bmat at 5:18 PM on Jan. 28, 2009
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