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My daughter is 13 and has been shaving her armpits for maybe 2years now but not her legs. In the past year she has asked me repepitively but still respects my 'no'. All of her friends wear shorts and dresses at the weekends and now summer is approaching i feel like i'm excluding her from this. My excuse has been that shaving only ruins her legs but she is willing to wax/use creams. What are everyone's views and when do you think acceptable?Answer Question
All teenage/preteen girls aren't created equal...i mean, there is not a cookie cutter age (same for wearing a bra, starting periods and all other girlie things). Some get hairy when they are 10 some 16, most being somewhere in between. If her legs are hairy let her shave or use cream, IMO.
Answer by momjoy1027 at 4:58 PM on May. 21, 2012
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Answer by Cindy18 at 10:48 AM on May. 22, 2012
If she has noticeable hair and wants to show those parts of her body she should shave. Frankly it is none of your business. She is 13. Leave her alone and stop embarrassing her with unnecessary roadblocks to normal healthy behavior!
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