My husband has never gotten over the guilt he feels for divorcing his kids mother. The kids were 7 & 10 now 19 & 22. My husband has always over indulged his kids and never ever says no. Now as a result neither one has a real job, no plans for college or a real direction toward securing a financially independent future. My husband and their mom still help pay for cars, insurance, cell phones and much more. The older one is married too? When I ask my husband how long he'll pay he says as long as he has to. He's soon going to be 50. I feel like we're always going to have to work to help them out. Any advice........please. My husband doesn't take it well when I bring it up.
But, this is not so much your business.....sorry to say.
Are you friggen kidding me?! It's every bit her business! It appears she is concerned for everyone involved. Why shouldn't she be concerned about these spoiled a$$, grown, children taking advantage of them? I wouldn't want to work my rear off to be responsible for grown children whether they are his, hers, theirs...yada, yada, yada! OR fear having to work forever..... bcz Dad can't put his foot down! Help is one thing....use & abuse is another! Get one thing straight...just bcz she married a man w/children...does not mean she has to spend the rest of her life nor marriage..being financially responsible for them!
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