Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

do you think my husband cares what I look like?

I try to look presentable by the time he gets home, but sometimes it doesn't happen. He never seems to notice one way or the other. Do you think they really care?


Asked by Anonymous at 12:08 PM on Jan. 29, 2009 in Just for Fun

This question is closed.
Answers (16)
  • my opinion is i don't care if he's dressed down in sweats and stuff. i actually find it sexy sometimes lol so why would he care?? im sure he doesn't find it sexy unless its summer and im wearing my short shorts haha.. but nah i don't think mine cares. he loves me for me... now how i dress. when we go out i'm always presentable! its just when im home all day why would i waste that time when i could be doing soemthing else?

    Answer by krazyash023 at 12:29 PM on Jan. 29, 2009

  • Mine doesn't seem to notice either. I am usually dressed down most of the time so even when I dress really nice for him I barely get a second look. Or this one "were are you going?"

    Answer by watersgirls at 12:10 PM on Jan. 29, 2009

  • I feel when they love you, they love you when you look good or not.

    Answer by Dannee at 12:10 PM on Jan. 29, 2009

  • If he loves you he won't care if you don't have time to get all slicked up before he gets home. Although I try myself to at least look presentable for him. I'm sure i wouldn't like it if he walked around lookin like a slob all the time!

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:10 PM on Jan. 29, 2009

  • if they love you, nah. I asked my husband, and he said he doesn't care.

    Answer by erlsk at 12:11 PM on Jan. 29, 2009

  • Yes. I think they dont want to or need to see us in tshirts and sweats all the time. DH said he doesnt mind sometimes but not everyday.
    Youre DH might be different so ask him.

    Answer by MamaChamp at 12:11 PM on Jan. 29, 2009

  • it can go both ways, ive asked my husband once if he would like it more if i dressed up for him, he said "yeah sure".

    then i started to not want to do that anymore, got too lazy, so he mentioned "doesnt matter to me what you wear"

    he just kind of leaves it like that, i dont think he really cares how i look during the week, when i go out, i get myself all dolled up and thats just an absolute surprise to him! so its always nice to be surprised in my relationship once in a while.

    Answer by americansugar80 at 12:11 PM on Jan. 29, 2009

  • Its not always about "if they love you". I mea I love my hubby but I dont want to see him ungroomed 24/7 right?

    Answer by MamaChamp at 12:13 PM on Jan. 29, 2009

  • Mine doesnt really care. He said that he wouldnt get all dressed up if he stayed at home with the kiddos so he doesnt expect me to either. But I do babysit three days a week so on those days I look presentable atleast.

    Answer by YoungMomtoGirls at 12:13 PM on Jan. 29, 2009

  • mine doesnt care & its nice! when he's home on Saturdays he doesnt get dressed up, so why would i if im not going anywhere? now if we go on a date or somewhere as a family then i take the time to make sure i look good. but its never for him alone. if i look good then i feel good & that positive self-image shows.

    Answer by okmanders at 12:19 PM on Jan. 29, 2009

Next question in Just for Fun