I am no expert but I do see a growing trend...
1 we verbally trash our mate, ...to the point even tv advertisements are getting in on the hit jobs. It is like we clip the balls off our men and wonder why they can no longer function.
2 we expect them to act like our BFF...and get really pissed when they can not "read our mind", flatter us to no end, get bored listening to us sometimes.
Why are we less and less willing to allow our husbands to be our husbands? We marry them, then expect them to live up to this magical list in our heads that we have not even clearly defined...and wonder why they are so "stupid" or "lazy" "emotionally unavailable" or not living up to our standards of what we wanted to have as a man. Let our girlfriends be our girlfriends but lets let our husbands be our husbands.
Admit it ladies...how many of our men got the stink eye today?
Why oh why ?
Answer by meooma at 7:12 AM on May. 31, 2012
Answer by luvmygrlz at 7:31 AM on May. 31, 2012
Answer by butterflyblue19 at 7:32 AM on May. 31, 2012
We just celebrated our 12 year anniversary and our relationship is so much stronger than when we first got married. Relationships evolve some grow stronger, some don't. It takes alot of work to maintain a healthy relationship, but it is a two way street. We as women are more emotional but men aren't off the hook. They can be as complex as us women.
Answer by luvmygrlz at 7:36 AM on May. 31, 2012
Answer by dullscissors at 8:14 AM on May. 31, 2012
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Answer by Nimue930 at 11:53 AM on May. 31, 2012