Answer by jem102675 at 5:00 PM on Jan. 29, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 5:12 PM on Jan. 29, 2009
Try spending some time with just him... talk to him....
Maybe you can do a mother/son day once a month ...
Answer by gmasboy at 5:34 PM on Jan. 29, 2009
Answer by gingercakegirl at 6:03 PM on Jan. 29, 2009
Good Luck. If you find an answer please let me know. I have an 11yr. and a 6 yr. old and have the same problem with my 11yr. I take him on Mama/son dates, along with rewarding him for things that he does, but not in front of my 6yr. A mommy/son secret. I have a secret book box with my 6yr. I constantly hear, 'you love him more' or ' how come you don't make him do this/that?' I'm already very ill/disabled and good days are hard to come by, & really don't need this. I try to tell him that for 5yrs he had us, just me and daddy & his brother hasn't had that. But it hasn't mattered. I still hear it. He is always concentrating on what his brother is doing and not what he needs to be doing. There for gets in trouble for back talking or not paying attention to the task he is suppose to be doing. So if you find out or anyone else reads this...and knows what might work...LET ME KNOW!!!
Answer by Sweet_Peach at 6:11 PM on Jan. 29, 2009
Answer by Vickalini at 7:24 PM on Jan. 29, 2009
Answer by timelessglass at 7:28 PM on Jan. 29, 2009
Answer by womenrule at 11:10 PM on Jan. 29, 2009
Answer by mistynights234 at 8:52 AM on Jan. 30, 2009
Answer by Vickalini at 2:58 PM on Jan. 30, 2009