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Child support military

My ex and I Just went to cs court last week(this is through my local dhs office) and i got for lack of a better term screwed. i make 10 an hr i work full time so my gross income is around 1600.00 a month may be a little more if i bonus from 12-20-11 to 4-16-12 there was over time avail at my job (over time is fairly rare ) so i worked a lot of it . my ex makes around 3600 gross a month including his allowances (bah and such )

this past Christmas my ex and i were talking about going back in and having our cs order modified since at the time of the last court date  was laid off  and he had quit his job ( his boss refused to give him a raise that he felt he earned ) so both of us were listed at making 1220.00 a month and the amount  of support to be paid was 222.50 with us equaly splitting all out of pocket medical and child support expenses which i was ok 

at the last court hearing  after the judge thanked him for serving the only income that they would go off of  was his basic pay of 1900.00 even though title 43 Oklahoma statute  118b subsection f list his allowances as pay.

 

but they had no qualms about including my overtime(they have my gross at 2900 +)

so our split went from being 50-50

to 61(me) -39 (him )

and support to be paid to 260.00 

the whole reason we even talked about going to cs was for the medical support amount to be changed where he is covering the largest part (at least that was what we had agreed to) 

a little background info ex joined the military 6 months after our last order

he does have a wife to support 

no I'm not money hungry i have a son with special needs 

my ex was very happy at the way things turned out and his wife actually said that that they new it would turn out that way 

i just need advised i want to file an appeal my self since oi don't have an atty but i have to prove that his bah was listed on his check  stub since they are saying it wasn't (i saw it it was  909)

how can i get a generic army pay stub that shows how his bah and other allowances were listed 

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 3:59 PM on Jun. 2, 2012 in Military

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  • my son has tricare as of the new court order i pay my ex 2.50 a month for him to be on it but my son has special needs he has speech therapy 2 times a aweek an my son has PDD-NOS the co pay for speech therapy is 22.50 per visit
    in a month that is 180

    i try to pay as i go but that gets kinda hard so i normally pay what i can and pay the rest at tax time



    also my ex still owes me 700 in past medical
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 6:34 PM on Jun. 2, 2012

  • You shouldn't have to pay anything out of pocket with tricare if he is on Prime and you have the proper referals.

    GL, as far as the child support, unless you get a really good lawyer, nothing is going to change.
    Soniam301

    Answer by Soniam301 at 12:11 AM on Jun. 8, 2012

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  • Your son is still his dependent, and should be covered under tricare. So that right there makes up for a lot of it. BTW while it may say that they can include their BAH, they really never see it. The exception being they live in a low income area and were lucky enough to find a place suitable for them, well under their BAH and have enough left over to cover all their utilities.
    KWnavywife

    Answer by KWnavywife at 4:34 PM on Jun. 14, 2012

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  • Why is he not covering 100% of medical.
    GlitteribonMom

    Answer by GlitteribonMom at 1:59 AM on Jul. 27, 2012

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