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okay about 2 wks ago a family friend came to dh and i to tell us that his brother and my sis were chatting on face book. we ALL now that when this guy starts talking to a chic he wants temp booty call. so my sis is married, her dh is in mexico,( had to be down there to apply for greencard) in fact he's been there for 19 mos. when i confronted her about this she denied it then pinned it on 2 of my dh's best friends, believe me it was hell cause my parents found out and my dad wanted to kick thier butt without realizing my sis had lied about those two having spread rumor. so dh, the guy and fam. friend oh and two best freinds get togethr to talk this out, clear things up. well the guy showed dh proof that my sis was the one flirting with him mutually, and she was telling my dad he was harrassing he. so when dh told me i got on the phone and yelled at her for lying and endangering both dh and my friendship with friends, she cried it up made a scene infront of my mom. next day my mom calls and yells at me for not believing my sis. they always cover up her mistakes and i refuse to do the same. so things are very awkward with my family and me. did i do wrong? should i apologize?
I spoke to my mom yestreday and she says my sis is still upset with me, keeps telling me she doesn't want us to be like aunt s who don't speak to each other but i have nade every effort to talk to si. now she insinuates she wants me to apologize. i don't feel i did anything wrong,but should i just swallow my pride and do it/ Also IDK if this matters but this is the sis that always got away with mischeif,mistakes trouble, in other words BOTH my parents have done more for her tahn for me and they coverup and excuse every slip upshe does and has done all these years. i am so tired of being left in the dust. that's why DH doesn't wanna go camping with them anymore cause they would literally forget i was even there when sis was there. I even had the misfortune of a cousin and his family point it out when they came camping with us one year. what do i do/ I haven't even been invited over for fathers day yet? please i need help to find some peace of mind and soul.Answer Question
Answer by Ginger0104 at 11:19 AM on Jun. 8, 2012
Answer by LostSoul88 at 11:20 AM on Jun. 8, 2012
Answer by AngZacc at 11:21 AM on Jun. 8, 2012
Answer by kmath at 11:23 AM on Jun. 8, 2012
Answer by gdiamante at 11:25 AM on Jun. 8, 2012
Stay out of it and you won't have any problems. Sound to much like a bad soap opera to me... I don't deal with that shit in real life.
Answer by Crafty26 at 11:26 AM on Jun. 8, 2012
Answer by Ludvik_Smith at 11:29 AM on Jun. 8, 2012
Answer by winterglow at 11:56 AM on Jun. 8, 2012