OK SO I MET THIS GUY(WHO HAPPENED TO BE MY NEXT DOOR NEIGHBOR) AND WE GOT MARRIED JUST A FEW MONTHS AGO, AND WE BOTH STILL LIVE WITH OUR PARENTS RIGHT NEXTDOOR TO EACH OTHER....WERE IN THE PROCESS OF LOOKING FOR OUR OWN PLACE....WELL ANYWAYS WE JUST HAD A BABY WHICH IS 2 1/2 MONTHS NOW AND MY "HUSBAND" ALWAYS WANTS US TO GO OVER N STAY THE NITE AT HIS MOMS BUT WHEN I ASK HIM TO STAY AT MY MO,S THERES ALWAYS AN EXCUSE....SO HE CALLED YESTERDAY N ASKED IF I WOULD COME OVER TO VISIT TODAY, SO I WAS LIKE "SURE, FOR A FEW HOURS"AND SINCE I TOLD HIM WE WERENT GOING TO STAY THE NITE UNTIL HE CAME N STOOD THE NITE WITH US HE GOT MAD AND TOLD ME "I WILL TAKE MY SON WHEN I WANT AND FOR HOWEVER LONG I WANT" I SAID "NO YOU WONT, HE'S JUST A BABY, HE BREASTFEEDS, HE NEEDS HIS MOM"....HE TOLD ME HE WAS GOING TO TRY AND GO TO COURT TO TAKE MY BABY FROM ME....CAN HE DO THAT?....WHAT DO I DO?....Answer Question
Answer by navy-wife at 1:32 PM on Jan. 30, 2009
Answer by avpriddis at 1:33 PM on Jan. 30, 2009
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Answer by krazyash023 at 1:34 PM on Jan. 30, 2009
I would get that marriage annulled immediately. You laid your personal life out there, so I am going to be very honest with you based on the information you've given. Getting married to someone you hardly know (and doesn't accept your family), getting married when you can't live together and still need the support of your individual parents and having a baby are decisions you made together. You're about neck and neck in the poor decision making department there so I doubt he would be awarded custody over you. That's just the thing though, you've made a couple of very bad decisions. Hopefully his parents will not use that in attempt to seek custody from BOTH of you. Start making smarter decisions and begin to prove you are a responsible adult. Then, you wouldn't have to worry about someone taking your baby from you. Do not stop breastfeeding. Until a judge says so, that child should not leave its mother's care.
Answer by Anonymous at 1:46 PM on Jan. 30, 2009
I am sure he has to actually start divorce proceedings on you ,to try to get custody of the baby.
Answer by louise2 at 1:48 PM on Jan. 30, 2009
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Answer by navy-wife at 1:59 PM on Jan. 30, 2009