I was dating a married man, (I know I know, i dont need 2 be scolded). Anyways, he left her and we were together for almost a year. Then I got pregnant, and his wife (that he was not living with) was livid. He is a condiderably wealthy man and was afraid to lose what he worked for, and he felt guilty 4 starting a new family so he went back and left me 20 weeks pregnant. My daughter is almost a year old, he is still living a double life and telling me he loves me. I am from a different state and just want to go home with my family. I dont work, and dont have any money saved. He pays for everything. He promised if he didnt come back he would help me get home. Then he cries cuz he doesnt want me to leave. I feel trapped, and I know I am partially to blame, but I just dont know what to do. I am not young, I am not a bimbo, and I am aware its wrong what I did...I am just looking for some honest advice.
Asked by Anonymous at 2:34 PM on Jan. 30, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by Danielle720 at 2:41 PM on Jan. 30, 2009
You have no future with this man, who is a cheater, a liar, and who is not honorable to have brought a new human being into the world and then abandoning the child. This is despicable. It is time you got some job training and got yourself a job. I wonder if you would see a lawyer if you could get some money for child support. Break off this relationship- he is a manipulator. When you are taking care of yourself then you can form a relationship with a decent man.
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Answer by Wimsey at 2:51 PM on Jan. 30, 2009
File for child support. Get a job. Move back home with family. He is never going to leave his wife. If he cheated on his current wife then what makes you think he will be faithful to you if he should someday leave his wife for you? He has already proven himself to be a liar and a cheat. Your daughter deserves a better example, it is time to take charge of your own life and do the right thing. If your daughter came to you with this problem what would you want her to do????
Answer by Tawanda74 at 3:10 PM on Jan. 30, 2009
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