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When I was 15, I was walking around the house in a spaghetti strap top with no bra. My stepdad(technically father, since he adopted me when I was 8) told me I couldn't walk around like that, that I don't realize what that does to a man. I changed, then went to the bathroom. When I came back to my room, he was standing there in nothing but his tighty whiteys, changing a light bulb. A couple days later, I was in the bathroom doing my hair, and he came in and srood behind me talking, wearing nothing but a bathrobe. Before I knew it, his erection was poking through the opening in the front. I am now 44 and he's 60. Our relationship is cordial, but I still feel uncomfortable around him. Is that excessive or unusual, given the time that's elapsed?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 7:51 PM on Jun. 16, 2012 in Relationships
Answer by meooma at 7:54 PM on Jun. 16, 2012
Answer by FXmomTo3 at 8:21 PM on Jun. 16, 2012
Answer by LanaisSky96 at 8:21 PM on Jun. 16, 2012
Did it go any further then that? Did he molest you?
I personally would stiff feel uncomfortable around him.
Answer by louise2 at 8:25 PM on Jun. 16, 2012
Answer by SWasson at 8:38 PM on Jun. 16, 2012
Answer by louise2 at 9:14 PM on Jun. 16, 2012
Answer by Ludvik_Smith at 9:41 PM on Jun. 16, 2012
Answer by Mom-2-3-Girlz at 10:38 PM on Jun. 16, 2012
Answer by Mom-2-3-Girlz at 10:39 PM on Jun. 16, 2012
That's pretty nasty and I think it would bother me too. If it were just the underwear thing I would think he was trying to make a point, but the bathrobe things is just effin nasty.
So no, you aren't wrong that it still bothers you.
Answer by QuinnMae at 10:51 PM on Jun. 16, 2012