Ok my ex-fiancee' and I split up a month ago. I'm 22 weeks pregnant with my first child(this is his third).He hasn't called or tried to contact me in any way to check on our baby until 2 days ago...He's now engaged to someone new(they started dating a week after we split up last month)...and out of nowhere he messages me on facebook to let me know he's getting things ready for our daughter and that he will be in her life.I said why are you getting things ready,she's not living with you.Then he gets hateful saying I'm being a bitch and things like that..I've never told him he couldn't see her when she's born,I even offered to drive to his mom's house(where he lives) to let him see our daughter.His mom's house is almost an hour and a half from where I'm living...He thinks that just because I'm single(staying with my parents right now because I don't have a job,I was in college but I'll be taking a break when my daughter is born) and he's engaged that he and his new fiancee will be able to get custody of my daughter once she's born. He has 2 kids from his previous marriage,he still hasn't taken the parenting class(they divorced 3 years ago) and he is over $8,000 behind in child support on those children...sorry for all the rambling but my question is,do you ladies think he will be able to take my daughter away from me?
Answer by LostSoul88 at 9:33 AM on Jun. 20, 2012
Answer by zetajen at 10:18 AM on Jun. 20, 2012
Answer by adnilm at 8:38 AM on Jun. 20, 2012
Answer by kimigogo at 9:55 AM on Jun. 20, 2012
I wouldn't put his name on the birth certificate either. He hasn't paid child support for his other children so he won't pay it for yours either. Move on, eliminate contact with him (get off facebook) & start a new life with your new baby.
Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 10:53 AM on Jun. 20, 2012
Answer by missanc at 12:00 PM on Jun. 20, 2012
Answer by CometGirl at 2:53 PM on Jun. 20, 2012
Answer by Bmat at 8:31 AM on Jun. 20, 2012
Answer by kimigogo at 9:56 AM on Jun. 20, 2012
Answer by gdiamante at 10:05 PM on Jun. 20, 2012
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