Ok to be annoyed?

Ok so my fiance brought the movie The Change up and wow I thought nice it sounds good specially because I love the two main actors that are in the movie so I said why not. BUT after 20 or 30 minutes I started to feel a little bit uncomfortable because for me were weird scenes and partial nudity. I felt weird so I stand up and go to the bathroom..and then I go back and I said to him I really dont want to see that movie. He got so annoyed and couldnt understand why. In my case I didnt like the movie. Did you see that movie? it was ok with you or you didnt like it? I said to him if I dont want to see a movie you should respect that and is like he doesnt get it. Do you think he should get so angry because of that?

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Asked by Anonymous at 2:27 PM on Jun. 21, 2012 in Relationships

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I think you are acting very odd. This is a sight for Mom's. If you have had children then really there isn't much you would be ashamed of or embarrassed about. How old are you & your fiance?

Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 2:50 PM on Jun. 21, 2012
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You're uncomfortable with nudity? Why,was it your fiance seeing it and his possible reaction or something?

Answer by butterflyblue19 at 3:15 PM on Jun. 21, 2012
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I can't tell you how many movies I have watched that I thought were dumb and not worth my time. My hubby on the other hand thought that they were awesome. Same with sappy lovey dovey movies that I make him watch, he does it because he knows that I am enjoying myself. I think that he does have a right to be angry and you should suck it up. Partial nudity, you are adult correct? Nothing you have never seen before I would imagine.

Answer by Melbornj at 3:20 PM on Jun. 21, 2012
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I dont understand why you're having a problem with it. The movie wasnt that bad.

Answer by LostSoul88 at 3:22 PM on Jun. 21, 2012
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Im not the only one that find the movie rude with the language and some scenes. Nudity is ok I dont have problem with that.

Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 3:30 PM on Jun. 21, 2012
I thought the movie was funny. It seems like your taste in movies is very different than his. Do you guys in general like the same things or do you tend to be more conservative?

I can see you reading a book or doing something else but i wouldn't expect him to turn off the movie just because you didn't like it. It would be nice if he did since it wasn't just a prefernce but you were clearly uncomfortale. I would be a bit annoyed if I watched half a movie and my husband had me turn it off because I didn't like it. So I can see him being annoyed.

Answer by ria7 at 3:36 PM on Jun. 21, 2012
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I had not problem with that movie, as in the nudity. It wasn't a really good movie really.

Answer by louise2 at 4:01 PM on Jun. 21, 2012
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I didn't see that movie but sometimes when I watch movies with nudity I feel weird, like if the scene lasts a long time I feel like I just landed in someone else's bedroom and shouldn't be there! I don't mind flashes of nudity but when they draw it out I can't stand it and can't wait for it to stop! You have every right to feel comfortable in your own home! You did nothing wrong! If you want to leave the room because you are uncomfortable you have every right! You didn't try pushing your way onto him and he shouldn't think he can push his way onto you, let him watch whatever he wants it doesn't mean you have to do the same.

Answer by Anonymous at 4:01 PM on Jun. 21, 2012

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You knew nothing about the movie before you agreed to watch it? I don't see movies, EVER.

Answer by meooma at 4:04 PM on Jun. 21, 2012
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Hi! Well no I didnt tell him turn the tv off what I say is that you can keep watching the movie but in my case I dont like it. I think that would be very very bad to do to tell him to turn it off. I just said to him I really dont want to keep watching the movie I dont like it but just finish it and he said no I want to watch it with you, he got annoyed, turn the tv off and go to sleep.

Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 4:34 PM on Jun. 21, 2012