These are not sexual dreams or even pleasant dreams and they're not always or even most of the time about him, per se; BUT every time I have any kind of disturbing dream he is always present somewhere in the dream. It's true I can't stand the man, hate his freaking guts, but it is possible that I really, really HATE him that much that he's become the epitome of night-frights for me?? Like, I dreamt of driving a car, everything's normal, then I see him standing by the side of a bridge talking to someone (unimportant), then suddenly the car is flipping end over end. Another time, I'm standing at a window, he drives by and waves at me, the next thing I know is there are fires and storms and I'm scared as hell. I mean a dream can seem normal, then suddenly he shows up and it becomes a nightmare. I always wake up either thrashing about or crying.
Asked by Anonymous at 12:25 PM on Jan. 31, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by gemgem at 12:36 PM on Jan. 31, 2009
Hmm, my best guess is that you're LETTING him take control of your life. Maybe not consciously but it seems that is what is happening. Maybe you should work on NOT hating him. I know it's going to be hard. (I'm still working on forgiving my father.) He may not deserve your forgiveness, but YOU deserve to forgive him. I think your hatred for him is overtaking your life. Now, I'm not a dream interpreter so I could be way off target here, but that's just my opinion. Good luck!!!
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