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My son turned 3 in March. He is a military brat and his dad is gone quite a bit. He has a 4 year old friend in the same situation. A few days ago, my son and his friend were really quiet in his friend's room. I go in and check on them and both boys are on the bed with their pants and underwear completely off. I asked what they were doing and they both scurried really quick and said "nothing". I told my son that he does not take his clothes off for anyone unless Mama and Dada tell him to. Last night, I allowed him to hang out at his friends again and my husband caught them this time, the friend laying on the ground and our son beginning to take his shorts off. My husband yelled at him and we banned him from spending anymore time with his friend for awhile. This morning my son just asked me if I wanted to see his butt. I don't like this and I don't know if it's normal or something I should be concerned about.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 8:56 AM on Jun. 27, 2012 in Preschoolers (3-4)
If the other mother asks why you don't want them playing together, I think I would just tell her the truth. Tell her that you are uncomfortable with your son taking his clothes off at their house and that it has happened twice now. You don't think it's appropriate behavior for kids to do that and since they have little supervision at their house you aren't comfortable leaving him there. I have nothing against holding back to keep from hurting one's feelings but this is something they need to understand isn't normal and appropriate. You won't be the only one to say this to them if they don't work on changing their child's behavior.
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