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What's the earliest you would ever "put out?" adult content

I'm about to go on a 5th date with a guy on this Friday.

I've known him for 6 weeks.  I really like him and I'm totally ready to sleep with him, but I don't want to come across as too easy.

Too soon?
What's the earliest you're willing to give up the goods?

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Asked by Anonymous at 1:41 PM on Jun. 27, 2012 in Relationships

Answers (26)
  • Um I would say with my last bf, we put out on the first date we had together but we knew each other for 4 months before that and was just good friends. We are still good friends but decided we are to different to be a couple.

    Answer by LostSoul88 at 1:43 PM on Jun. 27, 2012

  • I haven't dated in over 26 years so I have NO IDEA what to do these days. LOL!

    Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 1:43 PM on Jun. 27, 2012

  • Gave it up to my ex husband on our first date, but we had known each other almost a year.

    Answer by kmath at 1:43 PM on Jun. 27, 2012

  • Aww hell, nothing like a one night stand in a different city Bahaha Jk... Probably about a month but really it depends on chemistry sometimes it's there fairly quickly.

    Answer by Mrs_Harsh at 1:43 PM on Jun. 27, 2012

  • I follow my heart.  I slept with my husband on our first date and our 24th anniversary is in 2 weeks.


    Answer by beeky at 1:44 PM on Jun. 27, 2012

  • Yeah, with the word "ever" it makes me think past and present and future, in the past first date. If I do date again i've had 2 kids- I wouldn't show him these goods for a while!

    Answer by staciandababy at 1:47 PM on Jun. 27, 2012

  • it would depend on how much time we actually spent together IRL
    I slept with my husband 2 weeks after we met,but we saw each other every day of that 2 weeks

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 1:47 PM on Jun. 27, 2012

  • I gave it up before we were "together" knew him...a week or two I think?

    been together 20 yrs now...

    Answer by charlotsomtimes at 1:47 PM on Jun. 27, 2012

  • Not before dinner. I want to be fed first.

    JK I don't have a timeline for something like that. If I want to, I will.

    Answer by hootie826 at 1:48 PM on Jun. 27, 2012

  • I don't think my husband and I lasted but a few days. First night we kissed we did the deed. 10 years later we are going strong.

    Answer by Izsarejman at 1:52 PM on Jun. 27, 2012

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