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my friend is 15 years old, and she decided she was going to have sex without protection three days ago. She was suppose to start her period around the 27th of Jan. but didnt. She is feeling really sick, and i need to know, what should she do? when should she take a pregnancy test???

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:58 AM on Feb. 1, 2009 in Pregnancy

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  • Odds are she isnt pregnant if thats the only unprotected sex or sex shes had. You generally ovulate 14 days from the first day of your last period. Make sense? That means on the 27th she should have been ok. But since ANYTHING is possible you should get her a test to be sure. It would show up now on a test.

    Answer by gemgem at 11:59 AM on Feb. 1, 2009

  • i would wait a week then take a test i would get three just to make sure

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:00 PM on Feb. 1, 2009

  • A. get her a test.
    B. Talk her into talking to her parents.

    Answer by SusieD250 at 12:01 PM on Feb. 1, 2009

  • as a "friend" you should tell her how immature and irresponsible she is.

    after you told her that, which is the truth, you tell her to get a blood test done in a week or so. After that you should teach her how to use condoms or make her get any kind of other birth control.

    because i really doubt that she wants to have a child at this age.

    good luck.

    be a real friend and tell her the truth.

    Answer by m.robertson811 at 12:14 PM on Feb. 1, 2009

  • there is a chance she could be pregnant because not all women ovulate at 14 days. i have lutal phase defect so i ovulate a week late only 7 days before my period is supposed to start, so it can happen, have her take a test, and then go to a trusted adult. for more help.

    Answer by mandyjh at 2:06 PM on Feb. 1, 2009

  • well you might never know if shes pregnant or not. the best way is to..

    1. but a pregnancy test
    2. wait till she miss the sencond period incase she dont have money.

    Answer by Perez18 at 3:15 PM on Feb. 1, 2009

  • It she had sex only a day or two before her period its like 95% she is not pregnant, but wait about 12 days from when she had sex and take a test. Then tell her to take this scare to heart and use protection next time.

    Answer by lasombrs at 5:50 PM on Feb. 1, 2009

  • She'll need to wait about 2 weeks after having sex to take a pregnancy test. Is there a Planned Parenthood where you guys are? If for some reason, she can't talk to her parents, they're a good resource for pregnancy tests and birth control. If she's sexually active, she needs to use some kind of birth control. Their services are free.

    Answer by musicpisces at 12:30 AM on Feb. 2, 2009

  • Have her go to her Mother or another trusted Adult.. then she should handle the consequences like an Adult.. considering she wants to "play" like an Adult...

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:43 AM on Feb. 2, 2009

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