It was the complete opposite for me- my husband didn't want more and I truly felt neglected because he wouldn't even listen to me or consider my feelings. We're both equal parts of this relationship, right? Shouldn't each persons desires get equal consideration? My only suggestion to you it to be open and listen to him and try to weigh just how much this might effect your relationship either way. And be honest with him. In the end for us, we got pregant without trying to and I miscarried. It was really hard for me knowing I had lost the one chance I may have had. Once he saw me pregnant, got use to it, and then saw me lose it when I miscarried, his mind changed. Now he wants one too. It's a hard thing to deal with, and I wish you all the best.
at 2:29 PM on Feb. 1, 2009