I have been with him for over 4 yrs. We have a 6month old baby and he has been the only father my 6yr old (from a previous relationship) has ever known. We have been through so much together. The premature birth of our daughter, a miscarriage lin '07, ...He was the only person who was there for me when I had my accident last fall and was bedridden. Yet I can't help but be bored.
He lost his job (due to company downsizing b.s.) and has been looking for a new one every day. I spend my days working, then coming home and cleaning up after all 3 of them. We don't go out, the sex isn't so good anymore and the little things he does have started to annoy me. I find myself having my stimulating conversations with friends, telling them about my bad days, my feelings and my stresses. I find myself happy when I'm away from home. I just don't feel like he treats me the way I deserve anymore....but I feel as though I've invested so much.
Asked by Anonymous at 2:11 PM on Feb. 1, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by happi-ladi at 2:21 PM on Feb. 1, 2009
Answer by Kat122 at 2:16 PM on Feb. 1, 2009
What you need to do is stop being sooo negative, he sounds like a nice guy. All I can tell you is someone out there will be willing to take him. Alot of woman go through what you are going through just try to make the best of it and enjoy your life with him not very many men do this type of thing stand by a woman that has gone through so much and still put up with their shit. So try to have a night out together and try to rekindle what you once had and stop excepting the down side of things do it for you children and for him as well he sounds like he is willing to go through this again no matter what you put him through. Don't give up. Be patient and start thinking positive. Don't b a fool or selfish.
Answer by Butterfly1108 at 2:17 PM on Feb. 1, 2009
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