I had to go to FL when my mom died for 10 days with the girls and no Jared. They were 12 mos and 3 at the time. Bring snacks and drinks for the plane, I assume by then she won't be doing bottles, but if she still takes them then bring that too. Bring 2 sets of extra clothes for the plane too- sometimes it upsets their tummies. Maddie napped pretty well, but she was still nursing so I was abke to get her to sleep that way during takeoff. Crayons, coloring books, playdoh in a ziploc bag, and a nerf ball would probably keep her occupied.
As far as while you are there, I guess all she needs is you, food, diapers, clothes, and a place to sleep. It will kind of depend on how she does while off her routine. If she is pretty fexible then don't worry. If she likes things familiar then bring some of her favorite toys and stuffed animals and blanket. my girls were just excited to be somewhere else, so i didn't have to entertain much.
at 12:50 PM on Feb. 2, 2009