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Ok first thing is....I have a roommate and I gave him 1 key. Well his girlfriend has it and comes in at early hours and leaves late (shes not on the lease) I said something about it and he said its so she can come in and wake him up for work ect.
My thing is, is I dont feel she should have the key since shes not on the lease
My other thing is I chain the doors. Mostly for a little extra safety and also because my kids know how to unlock the doors and go outside so I keep it chained (their 2 and 4 and cant reach the chain and if they did its one you have to push in then lift the chain off) Well anyway the girlfriend comes in at an early time unlocks the door then takes the chain off and goes into his room and just leaves the door unlocked and unchained.
My thing is as I said up there I dont feel she needs the key. My other thing is I think it is just rude and disrespectful to undo someones chain and come in anyway.
Am I overreacting to these things? If I am is there anyway to approach this so there is a happy medium between me and the roommate?
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