I have a friend who started a relationship with someone just about last year or so. This person has 5 kids w/ 2 different women. So according to her at the beginning of the relationship they talked about their previous relationships & why it didn't work with the other people. He told her what he didn't like about his ex and she spoke about her ex-husband. So they supposedly knew what each other was looking for in a relationship or partner. But now this guy is calling & texting this other female. He's been in the room or bed and will leave the area to finish talking to her privately. One day he was suppose to go & get 2 of his kids. He gets a text from this broad asking is he in the area. So my friend asked to go w/ him & he blew up at her about why do you have to go with me. She explained she'd been home all day and just wanted to get out. Long story short she didn't end up going and he didn't return home until the wee hours of the morning. He's out until 3-4 in the morning and claims that he was drinking with friends & went to sleep on the couch. But when they go out together no matter how much he's had to drink they make it home w/ him driving. It's even go to the point of one of the kids calling her by someone else name. When she asked who that person was he claimed he didn't know what she was talking about.
IMO,, I'm thinking she needs to make a firm decision and stick to it. Either stay and deal with his BS or move on. But you're not going to be laid up in the bed with me talking to another chick. She's doing everything he asked of her. For instance, he didn't like that the ex didn't keep a clean house and his friends couldn't come over. So she cleans & vacuums every other day but he still doesn't have anyone over.
I thought relationships or marriages were about love, give and take, compromising, communication, trust, etc. But I'm not sure how much of me I'm willing to change if you're not willing to do the same.Answer Question
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