This is not the first time my dad has said something like this but for some reason this time I really bothered me. On Saturday (I bowl on a bowling league with my family) my dad and uncle stood on both sides of me and were joking around. They smashed me inbetween them. I know totally immature but they do that alot to people because they are bigger guys and they think its funny. Well I said "Hey your going to mess up my bowling" and I said it in a joking manner. After that my dad came back with "Well I was just trying to make you thinner. I think if you were skinnier you would bowl better". I was so hurt by that. I dont consider myself to be huge or anything. I am 5'0" and about 127lbs. So I am not super thin but I am not fat. I would have thought he was joking but he always makes these comments to me. Would that hae hurt your feelings? Every thinks I am overreacting.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:34 AM on Feb. 2, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by gemgem at 9:39 AM on Feb. 2, 2009
Don't take it personal, maybe at the moment it would hurt my feelings but don't let it get to you.
You already know how he is (and ur uncle) If it keeps bothering you let him know your feelings if he still don't get it then you know he is just that kind of a person. Don't let it eat you up it will make you feel miserrable. Just blow it off. Do your best in life and all will be just fine. GL
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