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I'm pretty sure the relationship is over with my current boyfriend. We have been together for almost 2 years (we are both in our 30's). I have children from my previous marriage, he doesn't have any children. We are really good friends and I have a feeling we always will be. There is no doubt in my mind that I love him and I know that he loves me. But we are at a stand still in our relationship as I want to wait until my kids are grown (about 7 more yrs) to get remarried. He says he is fine with waiting for me and that I'm worth it, but it just feels like our relationship has stalled out. And I don't think it is fair to ask him to wait. Thoughts?
Answer by balagan_imma at 7:52 AM on Jul. 16, 2012
Why end it if you are still in love & he's willing to wait to get married. Where else do you expect it to go while you're waiting? Is he living w/ you guys? Maybe a weekend away to rekindle the romance?
Answer by mrsmom110 at 7:26 PM on Jul. 15, 2012
Honestly, it sounds more like your stalling, as opposed to the relationship being stalled. I'm not saying that's bad if your gut is truly telling you something. But, it could be that you fear getting remarried & subsequently getting re-divorced.
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