NO ONE can GUARANTEE you a baby. A mother making an adoption plan, may change her mind after she gives birth, simply because she thought she could place, but falling in love with your own child is very overpowering. If I may suggest, whom ever you decide to go with, get EVERYTHING in writing, and make your wishes, heard, also in writing. Attorneys/agencies are there for one reason and one reason only..it is highly profitable for them, this is a money making business to them..no more..no less. Ask about expenses, what you are willing or not willing to do, ask if refunds of expenses if mother decides to parent, but most importantly, communicate with this e-mom, sharing all you will and will not do, asking her, what wishes she has..afree upon everything and keep that agreement! #1 TO KEEP IN MIND, remember there is a baby out there meant for you, if mother decides to parent, do not begruge her this, for this is GODS way! C.J.
at 12:50 PM on Feb. 6, 2009