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What states allow adoption facillatators to practice?

Why do people use a facilliataor instead of an agency? I have read they are not as trust worthy?? Suggestions, answers, thoughts???

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 8:09 PM on Feb. 2, 2009 in Adoption

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  • It depends i have a great adoption attorney i'm working with and agencies are costly and give no guarantee of the outcome to anything.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:10 PM on Feb. 2, 2009

  • Does an attorney guarentee an outcome?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:16 PM on Feb. 2, 2009

  • NO ONE can GUARANTEE you a baby. A mother making an adoption plan, may change her mind after she gives birth, simply because she thought she could place, but falling in love with your own child is very overpowering. If I may suggest, whom ever you decide to go with, get EVERYTHING in writing, and make your wishes, heard, also in writing. Attorneys/agencies are there for one reason and one reason only..it is highly profitable for them, this is a money making business to them..no more..no less. Ask about expenses, what you are willing or not willing to do, ask if refunds of expenses if mother decides to parent, but most importantly, communicate with this e-mom, sharing all you will and will not do, asking her, what wishes she has..afree upon everything and keep that agreement! #1 TO KEEP IN MIND, remember there is a baby out there meant for you, if mother decides to parent, do not begruge her this, for this is GODS way! C.J.
    ceejay1

    Answer by ceejay1 at 12:50 PM on Feb. 6, 2009

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