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3 Bumps

Pros and cons of the guy.....

you were with or dated just before your current boyfriend/spouse/hubby

mine was Bob and pro's he had money and loved me. Cons he was a former roider and had destroyed his genitals and fertility

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Asked by hibbingmom at 1:48 PM on Jul. 20, 2012 in Relationships

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Answers (11)
  • OMG! LOL!

    Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 1:51 PM on Jul. 20, 2012

  • Ugh,Tom
    pro- ummm,none. he was a total waste
    con- used me for sex,was seeing his ex behind my back,drank too much

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 1:54 PM on Jul. 20, 2012

  • Lou: Pros - he was incredibly fun, amazing body, and so good looking that other women looked at me with envy when we went anywhere. Cons - he was in a band so lots of late nights and little money and he wasn't ready for family life.

    Answer by missanc at 1:56 PM on Jul. 20, 2012

  • Steve
    Pros-He loved me,wanted to marry me and was very protective of me.Took me out to fun places.
    Cons-He was jelaous,some what controlling and i never would have considered someone like that for marriege.
    But an extra thanks to him,because he showed me what i really wanted in a guy which was my husband.
    I'm glad he is happily married and so am i,when i see him i say hi we aren't in bad terms..just life we were not
    meant for eacother that's all.I think we both became better and improved after the break up and life did us both good.

    Answer by GivingTreeMommy at 2:03 PM on Jul. 20, 2012

  • Shaun
    Con: possessive-abusive, jealous, insecure, liar, braggart.....yeah, I don't recall much good about him. Sad thing is, I was married to him for 6 months. Then, he left his one and only bruise and that was the end of that.

    Answer by Rosehawk at 2:04 PM on Jul. 20, 2012

  • roider what is this, op?

    He was older and steady
    he was controling and got rough (once)

    Answer by Dardenella at 2:34 PM on Jul. 20, 2012

  • LMAO at roider!!!

    I don't remember who was before my SO. Must not have had any pros.

    Answer by staciandababy at 3:32 PM on Jul. 20, 2012

  • Absolutely NO pros about the guy I dated before my husband.

    Cons: User, tried to get me to have sex with him, almost raped me in trying to get me to have sex with him, lazy SoB....

    Answer by hopeandglory53 at 4:35 PM on Jul. 20, 2012

  • Pro---he was nice
    con---he was on house arrest, momma's boy and wouldn't get a job

    don't know why I dated him.

    Answer by coala at 5:12 PM on Jul. 20, 2012

  • Cons: batshit crazy, mentally abusive, started to become physically abusive, lazy, arrogant, irritating as all get out, controlling, demanding...I could keep going, but I'll stop there.

    Pros: um....well, he was alive. So I guess there's that.

    Answer by wendythewriter at 6:26 PM on Jul. 20, 2012

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