My dh has worked 2 jobs for the entire 5 years of our marriage. He works 70-80hrs a week, nights(10-6:30 1st job, 7am-11am 2nd job 7 days). He finally got his schedule so he has sunday nite and mon nite off. not that it matters cause his sleeps all day anyway when he is not trying to help with our 2 yr old. In 5 years it has been far and few between that i just get his attention to talk and enjoy his company, let alone anything else. He says he he is to tired to give me attention. Yet he has plenty of energy to plan stuff with and for and hang out with friends, family, and even his home care client(7-11). Just yesterday he was all excited about wanting to find a way to take his home care client out boating on the lake this summer. And would I look up Handicap boat rental or excursions for him. I can even get him to take valetines off without a struggle. I have always done things for him, leaving little notes everywhere .
Asked by Anonymous at 2:11 PM on Feb. 3, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by NJMom2Tyler at 2:26 PM on Feb. 3, 2009
Answer by JuJu_Bean at 2:14 PM on Feb. 3, 2009
Answer by hypersquirrel at 2:20 PM on Feb. 3, 2009
He is taking you for granted. Do the same to him what he is doing to you.
Try this. Do not make time for him. Make it so you are to busy to do any thing for him.
Answer by louise2 at 2:21 PM on Feb. 3, 2009
Try to disappear see if he notices then. I hope things get better for you guys.
When you do talk to him have a very long talk this is not the way to live it is not fair for you or the kids. He works alot of hours because he wants to but if it is going to be like this tell him to drop one of the jobs. GL
Answer by Butterfly1108 at 2:26 PM on Feb. 3, 2009
Answer by mrsfitz05 at 2:38 PM on Feb. 3, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 3:07 PM on Feb. 3, 2009