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My work is having it's annual summer party and again SO does not want to go. I have been working there for over 2 yrs, and this will be the 3rd party we do not attend. Not to mention all other events. I work in a very busy orthopedic office with 15 doctors and we are all very close. All together there is about 60 of us. The Drs pay for this out of their own pocket to show us how much they appreciate us. I think it is rude not to show up. After 17 years I think he would be able to just suck it up and go because it would make me happy, but I guess that is to much to ask. Oh and when his work had a holiday party at a martini bar and I was pregnant for his 2nd child, I friggin went. Of
course I did drink but he wanted me there so I went. I am sooo MAD, I just need to vent.
Answer by kc932 at 10:16 AM on Jul. 28, 2012
So why won't he go to these functions at your work? What's his excuse? I'd remind him that a relationship is a 2 way street, and that you need to do things for each other. Even when you'd rather being doing something else. It's what family does for each other! If he still won't go, make him stay home w/ the kids & go have a good time without him! :)
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