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An Atheist Mother's Promise

Not a question - I just thought this was beautiful and that even people who aren't atheist might appreciate it.

I promise that by example I will teach you kindness, justice, cooperation, respect and tolerance. Because morality is part of what it means to be a responsible member of society and the world.

I promise to help you see other people’s perspectives, consider their experiences and be tolerant of their differences. I’ll encourage you to see beyond the labels of good and evil to understand the complexity of human existence.

I promise that as you grow and as I get to know you, I’ll accept you for who you are rather than any preconceived notion of who you “should” be.

I promise to teach you that you’re an agent of change in your own life and in this world. You aren’t a victim of circumstance and you don’t need to wait for unseen forces to bring you miracles. You’re your own creator — of fulfillment, joy, love and peace.

Alongside science, history, philosophy and the arts, I promise to teach you about all religions and give you the intellectual freedom to wonder, question and come to your own conclusions. And if your conclusions are different from my own, as many inevitably will be, I promise to respect them.

I promise to tell you the truth as much as I know it. And encourage a lifetime of curiosity, questioning and exploration in pursuit of more knowledge and your own truth.

I promise to show you that this moment right here is all the heaven we need. This life is our gift and our purpose. It’s our opportunity to live richly and to make lasting and meaningful change for society and humanity.

And in guiding you through life, I promise to talk to you about death — as much as I understand it — without euphemisms or fables, but as a natural part of this complex and enduring world. And I’ll talk to you about how brief a time we have in a world that existed before us and that will exist far after we depart.

I promise to love you fiercely, honestly and courageously.

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Asked by ABeaverhausen at 8:24 AM on Jul. 31, 2012 in Religion & Beliefs

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  • That was beautiful!!! if only all mothers did this much!

    Answer by older at 8:33 AM on Jul. 31, 2012

  • Of course....this is how I raise my kids.

    I do believe that most people want to raise their kids like this to a certain extent. I don't think it's exclusive to atheists persay.

    Answer by sahmamax2 at 9:53 AM on Jul. 31, 2012

  • I promise to love you fiercely, honestly and courageously.

    I call this ^^ unconditional love.

    Answer by meooma at 9:24 AM on Jul. 31, 2012

  • Beautiful. That's been my working plan so far.

    Answer by anng.atlanta at 10:19 AM on Jul. 31, 2012

  • Thanks for sharing!

    Answer by BubbaLuva at 10:44 AM on Jul. 31, 2012

  • I didn't say it was exclusive to atheists. That was the title written by the author... who happens to be an atheist.
    Oh I wasn't implying YOU said that. It was just something I felt when I was replying. No offense meant;)

    Answer by sahmamax2 at 10:59 AM on Jul. 31, 2012

  • Very nice.

    Answer by RyansMom001 at 6:39 PM on Jul. 31, 2012

  • I like that ... going to share it over on FB. Thanks for sharing. =)

    Answer by SpiritedWitch at 8:52 PM on Jul. 31, 2012

  • I saw this the other day, I like it

    Answer by .LavenderBlue. at 10:51 AM on Aug. 1, 2012

  • Very nice thanks for sharing

    Answer by Alisim at 12:01 PM on Aug. 1, 2012

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