Why does he want me to spend the night so badly?

He isnt yet my boyfriend but just a guy i'm seeing once in a while. Sometimes if we can get away from our hetic lives, we spend time together and when we do, the first thing we get out of the way is sex. Usually he asks if i can spend the night with him and i usually have to say no because i got to get home eventually to my kids.

So whats the big deal if we already have sex, spend time together and then i have to leave? why does he want me to spend the night so badly?

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Asked by Anonymous at 4:34 PM on Aug. 7, 2012 in Relationships

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Maybe he would like to have more sex, cuddle and wake up with you. Even guys like romance now n then

Answer by Mrs_Harsh at 4:37 PM on Aug. 7, 2012
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Maybe he just likes sleeping with someone. Maybe he wants to get more serious. Maybe he likes to make breakfast

Answer by adnilm at 4:38 PM on Aug. 7, 2012
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Maybe he doesn't like feeling like a booty call?

Answer by feralxat at 4:38 PM on Aug. 7, 2012
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Sounds like he wants a little more out of the relationship.

Answer by anng.atlanta at 4:39 PM on Aug. 7, 2012
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Because he wants to have more sex?

Answer by 3libras at 4:40 PM on Aug. 7, 2012
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wow, guys are so unpredictable.

Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 4:43 PM on Aug. 7, 2012
I agree with feral, maybe he is tired of being just a booty call!

Answer by kmath at 4:44 PM on Aug. 7, 2012
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He's wanting more than casual sex.

Answer by meooma at 4:58 PM on Aug. 7, 2012
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LOL, this really sound like a guy saying this and not a female. I have never heard a female not want to spend the night with the guy she just had sex with.
Sound to me like he wants more out of the relationship then you do to me. That's what I always wanted at least when a guy did that to me, back in my single days.

Answer by louise2 at 6:22 PM on Aug. 7, 2012
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i promise, i'm a woman :) but yeah, it is impossible with my kids, got 4 of them. Maybe we need do some discussing

Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 7:47 PM on Aug. 7, 2012

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