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Oh my god idk what to do plz help!! my daughter

Ok lastnight my exs girlfriend called me out of the blue and asked if me and amber(dds dads sister)if her and I were talking about my daughters father was SEXUALLY TOUCHING HER!?? Wtf hell no I never said that never heard anything about it! Well I ended up goin to my exs house because the cops were called bc of this and my dds dad side is that his sister said that my dd was nasty lice infested. A bottemless pit that she had pics of bruises on her that her dad gave her...ok first I know he wld never molest her!
Second my dd is always clean and she doesn't have lice! The story I got from their dad(this started at his house) was that amber started this and he called the cops bc they were trying to fist fight in his yrd and he was telling that if they keep this up and keep calling the cops and cps on them that all of our kids could get taken away!?? The story I got from amber was this all started bc her brother tried to steal her perscription! And that she had to give the cops her sim card bc all the pictures she had of my dd! And that her brother is takeing all thses pills and smokeing pot.
Ok here's my take on all this I'm getting a police report today I'm talking to cps today I'm goin to do anything and everything to make sure my dd is safe! I'm also not letting my dd go around either of them untill I figure this out!
Ps my friend lives down the rd and she saw the whole thing and she emailed me and told me that my dd dad had just asked her bf if he wanted to smoke spice with him!! Her bf said no but she wanted to let me know bc he's been doing it really hard latly and she was afraid that he was doing it around her!! Omfg what should I do?????

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Asked by Anonymous at 9:30 AM on Aug. 8, 2012 in General Parenting

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  • Sry for all the errors I'm on my cell...
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 9:31 AM on Aug. 8, 2012

  • I'm so confused.
    so what exactly is your question?
    meooma

    Answer by meooma at 9:33 AM on Aug. 8, 2012

  • Ok my ? Is am I doing the right thing by getting the police report and calling cps? And keeping my dd away from them both until this gets settled
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 9:36 AM on Aug. 8, 2012

  • Hell yes you are doing the right thing. I don't know how old your dd is, but you do whatever in the world you have to do to protect your kids. Good luck. This sounds like a crazy nightmare.
    texasgurl33

    Answer by texasgurl33 at 9:39 AM on Aug. 8, 2012

  • Slow down and take a deep breath, what are the facts ? How old is your daughter ?
    LeJane

    Answer by LeJane at 9:42 AM on Aug. 8, 2012

  • Oh my gosh, I have no idea what you are talking about. Break each incident down into a paragraph
    adnilm

    Answer by adnilm at 9:47 AM on Aug. 8, 2012

  • Ok the facts my ex was accused of molesting my dd who is 4 his sister is the one accuseing...she never told me anything about this befor lastnight she also said my dd was nasty lice infested and had brusies all over her..none of this is true! Dd has brusoses but she's 4 what kid doesn't?? Also she isn't nasty and isn't infested! The cops sposly have her sim card that has all thses pictures of my dd and a voice recording of my dd saying her daddy hurt her?
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 9:48 AM on Aug. 8, 2012

  • Adinlm sry I'm on my cell I tried paragrahs but when I posted this question this is what I got
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 9:50 AM on Aug. 8, 2012

  • Is spice even leagl??? My daughters dad has been doing this a lot I guess..my friend told me he asked her boyfriend to smoke it with him..
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 9:53 AM on Aug. 8, 2012

  • You need to keep her away from him until this is straightened out. You will just have to go through this process. Stay logical and try to be strong for your daughter. What type of a character is his sister typically ? She took a bunch of pictures of your daughters' bruises ?
    LeJane

    Answer by LeJane at 9:55 AM on Aug. 8, 2012

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