My ex and I have been having a lot of issues with the visitation thing and the fact that he hasn't been taking care of our 2 year old daughter. I'd taken advice from people on here about what to do about it and asked him to document her day for me (eating, sleeping, and napping habits) and although he did return with it filled out it wasn't in his hand writing in was written by his aunt who doesn't even live with him and both days seem pretty much the same so I'm not sure that it has any truth to it, I think that they just tried to remember/made it up like an hour before they came to drop her off at the end of the weekend. I have asked him to do this kind of thing before and he refused saying that he doesn't have to so I think he just made things up to shut me up about it without him actually doing it. Is there any consequences for him making things up or telling me lies about what's happening when she is with him?Answer Question
Answer by ria7 at 2:29 PM on Feb. 4, 2009
All I can say is if it was the other way around...Would you do it?
Some people would some people won't the ones that do is because they are the caring parent not only to their child but respect for the parent.
And the ones that don't don't like to be told what to do and pretty much just do what you ask to keep you happy and quiet.
So yes I do believe he is the "don't" kind of parent. as long as your child is happy when coming back from daddy's that is all that matters, because you can not hear or see anything that goes on behind closed doors. You just have to make the best of it. GL
Answer by Butterfly1108 at 2:31 PM on Feb. 4, 2009
Answer by BooHooMommy at 2:39 PM on Feb. 4, 2009
sorry but you should not ask him to do this if there is a problem then go to court if not leave him alone and let him be a father. If he ask you to do this how would it make you feel. If it where me I would tell you to take you list and well u see what I mean
Answer by kristie190 at 2:41 PM on Feb. 4, 2009
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