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The sex of the baby

I did not want no more kids cause I have 3 girls and I just did not want 4 girls. so after I find out that I was going to have a baby I cry bad and everyone think it's cause I do not want no more kids but I just do not want no more girls.

Will someone told me to stop thinking like that cause if it's a girl it's going to take me sometime to get over it and I may not want to much to do with her. But I told her I'm going to love my baby if it's a boy/girl.

But would I feel that way if I have another girl???
Should I talk to my doctor about this???
It maybe a crazy question but I just do not want to feel that way about the baby if it's a boy/girl.

But do u have all one sex and looking for the other sex???
how did u feel about it??















 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 6:11 PM on Feb. 4, 2009 in Pregnancy

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Answers (8)
  • I know I'll be disappointed if this one is another girl. I want a boy so bad. I will love this child regardless but there is such a thing as gender depression.

    Here's a good article

    http://www.babyzone.com/pregnancy/fetal_development/genetics_gender/article/overcoming-gender-disappointment

    I know how you feel and if you feel like you might need to talk to your OB about it, it can't hurt. Good luck! And thinking Blue for you!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:16 PM on Feb. 4, 2009

  • Some people say you will have what ur mom had first, then second and so on. All of the people I know it went in that order and so has my babies. So do u have alot of sisters?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:53 PM on Feb. 4, 2009

  • im pregnant now and i find out the sex on the 10th- and im scared because i thin i might cry if its another boy- lol i tell everyone that no matter wut i love him/her which is true but i also know that ill probably be very disappointed- especially for the fact that i have already ad 4 boys- i think u should just keep thinking positive though it helps me when my mind starts wandering over to that
    lovelyli217

    Answer by lovelyli217 at 7:08 PM on Feb. 4, 2009

  • oh and for the 2nd anon answer- i wish it was true for me lol! my mom had 4 girls i think im the opposite of her lol thats why im thinking the 5th might just break the cycle lol cause she only had 4
    lovelyli217

    Answer by lovelyli217 at 7:10 PM on Feb. 4, 2009

  • i have 2 boys and my third boy on the way.my mom also had 3 girls.
    carebear875

    Answer by carebear875 at 7:49 PM on Feb. 4, 2009

  • I don't mean to be all down on ppl's answers but why would what your mom had make any difference when it's the man's sperm that decides whether its a boy or girl?
    MattysWoWMoM

    Answer by MattysWoWMoM at 12:42 AM on Feb. 5, 2009

  • Will Mattys sometime it work like that my mom had 3 girls and I had 3 girls
    Mz.PhatPhat

    Answer by Mz.PhatPhat at 8:08 AM on Feb. 5, 2009

  • Dear me I hope not lol. My mom had 3 boys and then me, I have 1 boy and really want a girl this time!
    MattysWoWMoM

    Answer by MattysWoWMoM at 4:56 PM on Feb. 5, 2009