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CHEATER

ONCE A CHEATER.. ALWAYS A CHEATER.
IS THAT TRUE?

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Miszross

Asked by Miszross at 8:02 PM on Feb. 4, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (14)
  • not always but in some cases
    SThompson21

    Answer by SThompson21 at 8:02 PM on Feb. 4, 2009

  • I dont think so. I cheated on an ex with my now husband, it's now 4 years later and I would NEVER cheat on my husband.
    asholan_07

    Answer by asholan_07 at 8:05 PM on Feb. 4, 2009

  • No because I have cheated in past relationships but would NEVER think of cheating on my SO
    hautemama83

    Answer by hautemama83 at 8:10 PM on Feb. 4, 2009

  • totally depends on the person and the situation. Odds are higher, but not all or nothing.
    FlyMom07

    Answer by FlyMom07 at 8:10 PM on Feb. 4, 2009

  • I don't believe so. My husband messed around w/ a girl when we were dating, told me about it a long time after. We did end up breaking up, but got back together a year or 2 later and been together ever since. Goin on 14 yrs. I know he wouldn't cheat again!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:11 PM on Feb. 4, 2009

  • Mostly. It shows lack of the moral fiber needed to stay faithful, IMO.

    On the other hand, the cheating incident could have been completely personal.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:11 PM on Feb. 4, 2009

  • Nope I cheated on my husband once and never have done it again.
    mmmegan38

    Answer by mmmegan38 at 8:15 PM on Feb. 4, 2009

  • yes most of the time. I would never cheat on anyone and if I were ever cheated on I would be gone and that person would not have any hope of getting me back what so ever.
    lovemybabys1106

    Answer by lovemybabys1106 at 8:28 PM on Feb. 4, 2009

  • I don't think that's true... I cheated on a BF in the past, but I would NEVER!!!! do it again. The relationship was already over in my eyes, but i hadn't ended it yet. I think people can change if they really want to.
    abootie

    Answer by abootie at 8:32 PM on Feb. 4, 2009

  • i think a cheater always a cheater.
    my husband cheated on me in our relationship a multiple times and told me each time he would never do it again. I finally decided to dump his butt and now am happier
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:03 PM on Feb. 4, 2009

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