Theres a woman I work with who is constantly telling lies about things going on in he life. Her husand cheated on her a few years back, and left her. He remarried the new woman and they have a couple kids together. Awful story, I know. But the more time that goes on, the more I feel bad for him and the new wife because the woman I work with (the ex wife) gets more and more insane with the situation. She lies about everything. From personal details shes "uncovered" about the new wife, to how her and her ex "talk all the time" and "meet up for lunch" and how he's "still in love with her and going to leave the new wife to get back with her". At first I believed some of it, but then her stories started not making sence. I've gone to lunch with her several times, then the next day she'll be talking about how she had such a "great time at lunch with my ex yesturday"....I'm surely not her ex. And she can't seem to decide who he's leaving his new wife for. First it was for her, then for one of her friends, then her again, then some lady she's never met...only heard of, now its back to her again. The weird part is my sister work with the guy. He is very happy with his wife now and isn't planning to leave her at all.
But, my sister also found out that this crazy behavior was happening while they were married too. They were married for a very short period of time, didn't have any kids or anything live that. But my co-worker makes it out like they were married for 50 years and this new wife is a "phase" he's gotten over or something.
I used to ignore it, but now I'm so irritated by the DAILY drama with this woman and her ex and the new wife. Its very hard fr me to keep my mouth shut most of the time. I know he did her wrog when he cheated. I felt really bad for her and I guess asked for the drama at first because I became her "shoulder to cry on". But now that I'm discovering all the lies and nonsence...I'm done with it and really want to go off on her!
Why do people feel the need to lie like this, and what do I do about her??
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