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so i just got some fun news... you know on facebook how it suggests friends for you in the right corner of your screen? well the bio-father of my oldest daughter showed up so i clicked it, naturally lol, and see that him & his wife are expecting their 2nd baby (they already have a 2 year old together, we have a 5 year old together). funny because i called child support enforcement the other day since we havent received a payment from him since last september, just to make sure that there wasn't something going on like im not receiving them or whatever, but no, he really hasn't paid and they just suspended his license, and are moving forward with more actions soon.

why would you have more kids when you're not even taking care of the one you already have???? when they're taking your license away and shit because you're not paying? not to mention he hasn't even seen her in 3 years....

not a real question, just needed to let this out somewhere. some people are so fucking stupid!

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tnm786

Asked by tnm786 at 7:35 AM on Aug. 17, 2012 in Relationships

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  • surprisedMen like that dont deserve to have children! He'll regret what he's done when your daughter is old enough to ask him why he never supported her!

    kylie_bob

    Answer by kylie_bob at 7:46 AM on Aug. 17, 2012

  • yep i know one person like that, my friend's boyfriend. he's got at least two kids out there and haven't seen either one for about 7 or 8 years. and now they found out she's pregnant. what kills me is she really thinks he's gunna stick around when he bailed out on his other kids! like she said men like that should get fixed like the dogs do!
    noel1978

    Answer by noel1978 at 7:53 AM on Aug. 17, 2012

  • sounds like my ex..
    shay1130

    Answer by shay1130 at 7:56 AM on Aug. 17, 2012

  • Accident? Possibly.
    meooma

    Answer by meooma at 8:20 AM on Aug. 17, 2012

  • If he is getting a paycheck they should be garnishing his wages. Is he not working?
    staciandababy

    Answer by staciandababy at 9:15 AM on Aug. 17, 2012

  • Dead beat
    mommys2cupcakes

    Answer by mommys2cupcakes at 9:24 AM on Aug. 17, 2012

  • Because some men can't think with their brains and get caught up in the moment forgoing the condom. Stupid.
    kathyartist2007

    Answer by kathyartist2007 at 11:03 AM on Aug. 17, 2012

  • He works under the table
    tnm786

    Comment by tnm786 (original poster) at 12:48 PM on Aug. 17, 2012

  • Hmmm, could it be his current wife's idea to keep him attached to her, or his lawyer advising him that the more kids he has, the less liabilities he has ? He either is not very sharp, so he can't control his finances, OR his current wife did something crazy...
    MamaaSutra

    Answer by MamaaSutra at 12:00 AM on Aug. 19, 2012

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