What if I told my husband of my past? That I was permiscuous, use to use drugs and had sexual experience. Do I deserve to be treated less than any other woman? What if he told his friends and family?
And if he buys me expensive things, then says I am taking advantage of him. He acts as if I might hurt him, when he says such terrible things to me. Everyone believes him because of my past.
I went through so much to be present in my life today. When confused on things I think back to what the judge would advise me and what I want my children to do.
It's almost as if he wants a woman to come to him because he wants her to think I am treating him terrible.
So now I just take it, he says he loves me. He says I am turning him into someone he has always hated... a man who hits women. Can you imagine not having a choice at all in your life?
Asked by Anonymous at 6:22 AM on Feb. 5, 2009 in Relationships
why wouldnt you have a choice in life? you chose to live a better life right? you chose to get clean from drugs right? you have a choice in how YOU live your life. i was once there to i had huge drug problem, lost my kids to their dad, was homeless, and then some. i chose to be better to live better. we have choices its only if we take and use them! you didnt change him that was his choice for real. if hes hitting you dont put yourself down like that your life has gotten better you dont need that bull sh@#. about your past and telling him why not keep it real! if he loves you he would find you a very strong woman who has came along way!! im ashamed of my past but its what got me here today. i wish you the best. you do what it takes for you 2 be a strong woman ok huggggssss shannon
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