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2 Bumps

If your Boyfriend told you..*UPDATED*

That his exwife put him into the hole, was a gold digger, manipulative, cheated on him, blah blah blah..and you find out the entire relationship he's been texting/ callin her. Would you care? They were dating/married 13 years. divorced in 2004 because she cheated with his friend. They have no children together.

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Asked by Anonymous at 6:08 PM on Aug. 20, 2012 in Relationships

Answers (17)
  • Do they have children together?

    Answer by meooma at 6:09 PM on Aug. 20, 2012

  • I would care that he kept it a secret from me. In open honest relationships, we don't hide anything because it always leaves the question of what else he's been hiding. He should give you all the information about himself and then let you decide if he's worth your hanging around. Withholding any information that might affect your decision is nothing short of dishonest, and I would be done with him.

    Answer by NannyB. at 6:13 PM on Aug. 20, 2012

  • Doesn't sound like a great catch to me

    Answer by adnilm at 6:15 PM on Aug. 20, 2012

  • if they were only texting about the kids,, not so much,, if he has been hiding it,, time for someone new!!!11

    Answer by kimigogo at 6:16 PM on Aug. 20, 2012

  • Just cut your ties

    Answer by mommys2cupcakes at 6:16 PM on Aug. 20, 2012

  • depends- are there kids?

    Answer by charlotsomtimes at 6:20 PM on Aug. 20, 2012

  • I will never believe again, without corroboration, that a woman had no redeeming qualities.

    Answer by feralxat at 6:26 PM on Aug. 20, 2012

  • No kids.... no need to keep it going, especially if she was supposedly THAT bad. He sounds like he is playing games. Ask him about it and the WHY of it.


    Answer by amazinggrace83 at 6:34 PM on Aug. 20, 2012

  • If there are no children to keep them bonded or in touch with each other, then he should have no reason for having contact with her. If she did everything he claims she did, why would he want to? I think if he's dishonest about that, he could be hiding more. No relationship can withstand a lack of trust, so if I were you, I'd reconsider being with this guy & start counting your blessings that you aren't his wife #2!


    Answer by mrsmom110 at 6:38 PM on Aug. 20, 2012

  • Exactly what is he doing with her but talking to her?

    Well if they have not kids together, her should not even be contacting her. IMO.

    Answer by louise2 at 6:47 PM on Aug. 20, 2012

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