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Would you have a problem being friends with a couple that are active swingers?
I promise I'm not judging my best friend and her husband, but she is grating on my last nerve. She is constantly talking about the guy that they swing with. Forwards me his lovey dovey messages (I gag every dang time too).
Like I said, I'm not judging anyone that does that sort of thing, but I just want to yell, "I don't freaking care about your bisexual swinging partner! YUCK. Bluck. Bleck.
So, do you have swinger friends? Would you be able to handle it...especially when your bff gives you details. AGAIN BLUCK.
Answer by PartyGalAnne at 10:09 PM on Aug. 22, 2012
Answer by mrsmom110 at 5:05 PM on Aug. 22, 2012
Well, since my friends & I don't really discuss our sex lives, (at least not in details like you described) I'm not really sure if any of them really do or not. I can pretty much guarantee they don't, since most of my friends are too tired for their husbands, let alone adding more people to the mix! lol :p
Answer by mrsmom110 at 5:04 PM on Aug. 22, 2012
I don't have any that I know of. I don't think I would want details about it. While I realize that It is activity between consenting adults, I really don't like hearing about adultery. I am not judging either, but I have seen too many marriages break up because of people cheating on the other and it just feels wrong to me.
Answer by QuinnMae at 5:05 PM on Aug. 22, 2012
Answer by Rosehawk at 5:20 PM on Aug. 22, 2012
Answer by hootie826 at 5:04 PM on Aug. 22, 2012
I have a friend who considers her & her husband "polyamorous" it's a little odd. But, honestly I haven't seen her in over 20 yrs so, I only know about it through FB. So, it doesn't affect me.
Answer by 3libras at 5:05 PM on Aug. 22, 2012
Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 5:06 PM on Aug. 22, 2012
Well my BFF is, but her husband doesn't. He enjoys what she does and loves to hear details and wants to be involved. I cannot stand her stories. I hate it, I think its disgusting and I CANNOT understand their agreement with it, especially because her DH pushes her so hard to stay involved with the other guy (he actually set them up and the whole situation). Its just too freaking weird to me.
Answer by amazinggrace83 at 5:08 PM on Aug. 22, 2012
Answer by m-avi at 5:19 PM on Aug. 22, 2012