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No matter the situation...financially in our case.
Asked by Anonymous at 11:06 PM on Aug. 23, 2012 in Money & Work
Answer by SillyMomma at 11:08 PM on Aug. 23, 2012
Answer by PartyGalAnne at 11:15 PM on Aug. 23, 2012
Answer by m-avi at 11:17 PM on Aug. 23, 2012
I try not to feel like that. If I feel bad in one area of my life I compensate for feeling better about another part of my life. If I was having hard financial times, I would look at the things I could get rid of and either have a yard sale or I would take things I no longer needed or wanted that are in good condition to a consignment shop. For myself, being depressed about my situation is made worse by things that distract me. If I have a mess or I walk around my house and see how much stuff I would have to move or find a place to store it makes me feel a burden that I can do something about. IDK, it works for me.
I hope you can get your situation figured out and on the right track. Good luck.
Answer by QuinnMae at 11:32 PM on Aug. 23, 2012
I change the way I think and get out of "self". The best way to feel better about our own lives is to focus on what we can do for others.
Also look at all of the solutions logically. Is bankruptcy an option, do you need a smaller mortgage, what can you do, what can you change? Hang in there. life has a way of working itself out.
Answer by LeJane at 12:14 AM on Aug. 24, 2012
Answer by noel1978 at 12:17 AM on Aug. 24, 2012
Answer by adnilm at 12:22 AM on Aug. 24, 2012
Focus on getting through one day at a time and do something every day that helps your financial situation, such as making sure you look for a job or making sure you get your butt to work on time or setting aside time to look for a better job or see if going to school would help improve things or cutting back on expenses you don't really need. When you're really feeling hopeless, surf the web for military memorial sites and read their stories...people who gave their life for your freedom or who've lost body parts have it much worse than you, so you begin to stop feeling hopeless and start appreciating what you do have.
Answer by hellokittykat at 12:49 AM on Aug. 24, 2012
Keep trying though my tears and pain. Never stop thinking of what else I can do.
Here is a song http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KhTjnzlcIeI
A dream is a wish your heart makes
When you're fast asleep
In dreams you lose your heartaches
Whatever you wish for, you keep
Have faith in your dreams and someday
Your rainbow will come smiling thru
No matter how your heart is grieving
If you keep on believing
the dream that you wish will come true
Answer by mto3821 at 12:05 PM on Aug. 24, 2012
Answer by admckenzie at 1:14 PM on Aug. 24, 2012