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Do you have to ask your SO to take a shower?

or does he do it on his own? My SO used to do it on his own everyday...now I actually have to ASK him! ugh

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 3:48 PM on Feb. 5, 2009 in Relationships

Answers (14)
  • Sometimes I suggest it... but he does it pretty well on his own! I'm not one to talk, I'm not a big shower-er, myself!
    sfwilson

    Answer by sfwilson at 3:49 PM on Feb. 5, 2009

  • No, he showers on his own just fine. But I do have to tell him when it's time for a hair cut.
    beckcorc

    Answer by beckcorc at 3:49 PM on Feb. 5, 2009

  • no, SO is a cleany clean man.
    samurai_chica

    Answer by samurai_chica at 3:50 PM on Feb. 5, 2009

  • Nope my hubby is anal about showers he takes at least one a day sometiems two.
    3_ring_circus_

    Answer by 3_ring_circus_ at 3:51 PM on Feb. 5, 2009

  • Nope, but I do have to tell him to brush his teeth sometimes.
    Buffie95

    Answer by Buffie95 at 3:51 PM on Feb. 5, 2009

  • i have had to ask him to shower before. there were one or two times where he was exhausted and just wanted to go to bed, but I could NOT have him in my bed without a shower. he had the option of guest room or shower.
    AmelieH

    Answer by AmelieH at 3:54 PM on Feb. 5, 2009

  • only before using my mouth.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:02 PM on Feb. 5, 2009

  • LMAO OMG anon 1:02 I can't believe you actually put that! But anyways OP no I don't hey if he wants to be stinky thats his own thing, besides it not like he is out rolling around in mud all day long and he shaves his head so he looks clean even if he doesn't shower, but we aren't having sex if he is all nasty either and he knows that
    hautemama83

    Answer by hautemama83 at 4:05 PM on Feb. 5, 2009

  • OP HERE: ok then how can I put it nicely I've already tried playing around with him and calling him stinky but I was serious...

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:08 PM on Feb. 5, 2009

  • nope. my hubbys in the military, and a mechanic. he takes 2 a day. one in the morn. after pt and one when he gets home from work. then he gets his hair cut once every two weeks. i got a pretty good deal. but i do have to ask him if I can get one. . .lol kids don't give me a chance during the day.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:08 PM on Feb. 5, 2009

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