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My longtime boyfriend, over ten years, said he wants to be separated. I took it well at first but then I panicked, became angry, upset and cried alot. We've argued and I've begged and also been understanding. At the same time he wasn't clear at first. First he said I don't want to be with you anymore then he said he wants to be separated. He's nice than he's really mean and angry. We have a kid. What do I do to get him to come home? Do most people who separate end the relationship? How long should I wait or let him do this before I tell him he has to take his stuff and I have to move on. He ignores 90 percent of my calls. And when he says he'll call back he doesn't. Doesn't he miss his kid? He said if I force him to decide now then he doesn't want to be together. I'm left with no money, no rent and no car.He says he needs time to think about what he wants for his life. Please advice and tips appreciated.Answer Question
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