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The run down.. Husband had a early Midlife Crisis and cheated, turned into a monster. He left me and our daughter. Had us moved out of housing when he was out of town. I had to get my family to help. Left me with no car. Turned my cell phone off.
He Shows very little interest in DD He moved all the money out of our accounts Gave me $400 a month/ says Army while I was in Military housing Paid the rent with BAH/he is military I had to get Temp custody of our daughter to get Child/Spousal Support. So we did mediation. he gets her every 2 weeks 7amSat-6pmSun. He changed it to 9amSat-6pmSun. and was mad I asked him to take her to ballet/Gymnastics on his day I needed.
BasicallyI have been doing it all while he has been running around being unfaithful and treating me like crap. He's behind on his child support but got a lawyer???? 3 judges told him to pay up. so now at the custody hearing I have to get the back support looked at too. I have a lawyer and he said I was good to go Because I have been the stable parent.
I feel like he's trying to fight me for her. I mean we could have sat down and come to an agreement. He did say he would keep me wraped up in court. Along with that he started wearing his wedding ring again and wants to play nice all of a sudden.
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Asked by Anonymous at 6:17 PM on Aug. 25, 2012 in General Parenting
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Answer by LostSoul88 at 6:34 PM on Aug. 25, 2012
Get or keep your attorney and keep a journal of all interactions with him. If he tries to contact you directly and not through your attorney, have him email or text you as you can keep these things for record. IME, when someone changes how they are acting they are doing it to make themselves look better.
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