The fact that you're asking this question means you're not over him. I was like that with an ex once. I kept his pictures in frames, I kept tabs on him through friends... that was one phase of it. Then I completely acted out, started seeing tons of random guys, one night stands, convincing myself I wasn't missing out on anything. At that point I started to think I was over him, but i wasn't.
It actually took my SO to get me completely over my ex. Once I realized that here was this person who *really* loved me, and takes care of me, and treats me the way I deserve to be treated, and with respect, I tore down the pics. I still have a soft spot in my heart for my ex: he was my first love, and I lost my virginity to him. But now I can look back and appreciate the good times we had without pining over them. When you can remember w/o the stabbing sensation in the middle of your chest, you'll be over him.
at 8:47 PM on Feb. 5, 2009