Well my daughter's X is doing the visitation thing with her and my grandbaby. He has been doing this type of unsupervised visits for about 3-4 months. When he comes to get her for his 4 hour visits twice a week my grandbaby just starts whale crying... :(...... I have tested her with other men/friends/acquances and she does not do that? Does anyone know if or when she will get used to him or will she ever? Do you think she feels my daughters anger/hate/distust towards him (the X) when he comes and gets my grandbaby for his visits? It breaks my heart to see her cry like this.. It is not just a whimper it is a ball eyed cry with tears...Answer Question
Answer by MyMayBaby_Chloe at 4:46 PM on Feb. 5, 2009
Answer by JamiesMom08 at 4:53 PM on Feb. 5, 2009
Answer by bi-polarmommy at 5:24 PM on Feb. 5, 2009
we have really tried to be accomidating with him.. Yes we have tried 1. telling him to come over ahead of time and come and sit with her at my house on her turf for a little while befor he takes her... no luck...... 2.I have done the exchange......I was crying by the time he shut the front door.........
I AM JUST A WORRIED GRANDMA!!
Answer by JamiesMom08 at 5:35 PM on Feb. 5, 2009
Answer by ozarkgirl3 at 6:09 PM on Feb. 5, 2009
Mabye I am just a WORRIED WORRIED GRANDMOTHER.. Her mother is WORRIED too.. Thank you to all who responded.. I just needed to get it out there and get some response to see a different perspective on it... xoxox
I will keep y'all updated...... Thanks !!!
Answer by JamiesMom08 at 10:18 AM on Feb. 6, 2009